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Writing in The Atlantic, Caitlin Flanagan describes her 17-year battle with metastatic breast cancer, starting with her shock and fear when she was diagnosed: “Stage IV cancer! Could it get any worse?”
In an accompanying podcast she talks about an additional fright when the COVID-19 pandemic broke out. She realized how vulnerable she was because cancer treatment had damaged her lungs.
At first, she panicked.
“My fear was so huge ... I just felt [the virus] could be seeping under the front door, it could be coming in around the window.”
She’s far from alone in her fears.
“And when you add COVID-19, all of those cues get reinforced, because this virus is really stressful and also impacts our sense of safety, and now we can’t even rely on our support system because of physical distancing.”
Most cancer patients understand that they face a higher risk from COVID-19 compared to the general population, a fact that may intensify their anxiety. These days Mojtahedzadeh is busy identifying which of her patients are most vulnerable emotionally, most susceptible to this intensified fear. She helps them regain control.
Two of the biggest dangers, she says, are “catastrophizing” — turning molehills into mountains, believing something is far worse than it actually is, and “over-generalizing” — hearing about someone’s unique difficulty, for example, and believing it’s going to happen to you. “These thoughts can set off a vicious cycle and actually cause physical symptoms,” she said. “Your heartbeat will increase, you’ll start sweating, things like that.”
When fear starts playing those mind games, it’s important to find a path back to reality.
“I help people understand their thoughts, how they got to this point, show them how to label it so they can gain control and bring themselves back into the present,” explained Mojtahedzadeh. This is done through a variety of coping mechanisms designed to calm nerves, center your thinking, help you understand what’s happening around you, restore balance, and enable you to reach out and take positive action.
If any of that sounds familiar, it ought to. Long before COVID-19, Mojtahedzadeh and her fellow mental health professionals were teaching such skills to cancer patients in emotional distress. In fact, Mojtahedzadeh says many of her patients have automatically reached back to those techniques they learned in order to successfully navigate their current coronavirus concerns.
In other words, she says, what worked before will work now. Here’s her short list:
And remember to practice self-care, which is, after all, one thing you can control.
"Be a good steward of yourself," Mojtahedzadeh said.
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